Weiss in his writing is very quotable. Some of my favorites include:
- Wallflowers are not chosen as centerpieces.
- We are not here to stick our toes on the water. We are here to make waves. The water doesn't matter. You should.
- Speed is "not of the essence" it IS the essence.
- Life is about quid pro quo. Mastering your life entails helping others master theirs.
- We should never put ourselves in a position of sacrificing our own needs to satisfy those of another. Even in a marriage.
- We all grow by exploiting strengths not correcting weaknesses.
- Trait 1- Resiliance. This means you do not the support or input of others to sustain yourself. Ture resiliance does not require the validation of others. It is a behavior, not a competency.
- Trait 2- Eternal learning. NEVER "dumb down" your abilities, competencies or brilliance.
- Trait 3- Self-esteem. (more about this in a minute.)
- Trait 4- Perseverance. You win some, you loss some, some get rained out. But you have to "suit up" for all of them.
- Trait 5- Love. Masters of their own fates feel free to love, and do so repeatedly and continually.
- Acquire and hone skills.
- Apply positive "self-talk." (My comment: this is as close as he comes to "self-help")
- Walk with the Lions. Enter tough debats, take on the "experts", question what you find to be suspicious.
- Build on Strengths. Identify your strengths and exploit them. You don't grow on improving weaknesses.
- Articulate your values. Be cognizant of what you stand for and be able to explain it to others.
Before I go on to repeat the other book I will stop here. All I can say is I got jazzed by reading this book. I took notes and I reread the notes on a fairly consistent basis. I suggest you do the same thing. You can get the book here. It will be worth you time and money.
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